Helping Kids Feel Loved (All The Time)
“When you were growing up, were there any feelings that you just knew weren’t okay or accepted in your home?”
When I ask this question to a group of parents, almost every hand goes up.
One of the most basic emotional literacy lessons we try to teach kids is that their feelings are okay – all of them, all the time. Emotions are the body’s alert system and provide valuable information. When we learn how to notice and name our emotions — with compassion — we can make better choices about what to do with what we feel. But that’s not a message many of us grew up with.
I’ve spent the last 24 years as a teacher, school administrator, education journalist, and parenting columnist for PBS KIDS. In other words, I’m steeped in all the child development research. But that doesn’t mean I don’t struggle with this stuff, too.
So when I set out to finally write a parenting book, I wrote four of them. And they are all picture books. (The first 2 come out on February 22 (2/2/2022 — how cool is that?).
Let me explain.
You know how Daniel Tiger is a great kids show, but sometimes it seems like a parenting show in disguise? I mean, if you have children of certain age, chances are you can finish this jingle “If you need to go potty . . . “ My most successful articles seem to be those that give parents practical language to use with kids when emotions run high.
So that’s what these four books do. For example, “I Love You All The Time” begins with a refrain that I’ve used with my kids since they were toddlers:
I’m sending these books into the world in hopes that they offer parents one more small way to help kids thrive — to remind children that they are seen, they are known, and they are loved. All the time.
Cheers,
Deborah
www.parenthood365.com
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